I had my heart broken once and WASTED an inordinate amount of time feeling sorry for myself. It didn't help. What did though was reflecting on a certain time and place in my life with that person and how lucky I was that I had that experience. The girl who broke my heart fucked around on me too, but she was drunk,...you know the rest.
In the end though it changed my perception of all the relationships I have and continue to have in my life. Life is a journey. Experience everything from a positive sense and accept everything as it comes. Some people do shitty things to others. Learn from it. And revel in it when someone does you a good turn.
Can you be friends? Why not. You only live once. Life is hard enough without putting up anymore barriers to try and get over. And believe me, adopt a positive attitude towards everything in live without dwelling on the past and the rewards with be varied and plentiful. I'll guarantee it.
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" In Canada, you can tell the most blatant lie in a calm voice, and people will believe you over someone who's a little passionate about the truth." David Warren, Western Standard.
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