I'm pretty much in the same boat as you only without the g/f to talk to
I moved to virginia for a job and basically know absolutely no one here. The people that I work with aren't really the type of people that I hang out with and I'm not in school anymore. It's making the already difficult tasking of finding friends even harder. I'm thinking after the new year, I will sign up for a general class of interest at the local community college in an effort to meet new people. I've been on my own down here for over 3 months now and really haven't gone out