Originally Posted by brianna

ok, i'm going to play the crunchy hippy that would make my mommy (one hell of a crunchy hippy herself!) so proud.

you should love your body for what it is and (even more so) for what it's done for you -- it's given you 2 children and provided you with the ability to nurture them both literally and figuratively. it is unfortunate that our society cannot accept the natural changes that take place in a women's body as she ages (nevermind if she's had children or not) but the only way to change this is to defy it. there is NO REASON for you to be embarrassed of a little droop in your tummy or your breasts, they got that way doing their job! and i see no reason to risk your life (plastic surgery is a major medical procedure) for the sake of society's silly vanity. eat healthy, exercise, love your kids, show your husband what a great lover you are, and get naked in front of the mirror everyday and tell yourself how beautiful you are.