maleficent

I don't think any abuser intends to become one. Especially with emotional abuse, there's a very fine line between teasing and hurting someone, you'd expect the person being teased to say knock it off, and sometimes they do, but it gets ignored... and the teasing continues... (and that gets ito the whole blame the victim mentality)

All people are different, all people come into a relationship with different baggage, even if they claim there is none, just because a person could tell your last significant other something, doesn't mean that it's ok to tell the next significant other the same thing...

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