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Have you tried spending time with her and her family? If her relationship with you is important enough to her that she's envisioning being with you in two years, strike a compromise. Plan a date that consists of making dinner and dessert, and then showing off the meal to her parent(s). If something like that isn't an option, you need to sit down and tell her how you FEEL, not that the choices she's making concerning your relationship are good or bad - that's the quickest way to get someone on the defensive.
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Calling from deep in the heart, from where the eyes can't see and the ears can't hear, from where the mountain trails end and only love can go... ~~~ Three Rivers Hare Krishna
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