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If you read my post in the "women enjoying oral sex" post, you'll see that giving women pleasure is very important to me. Like someone said earilier, women sometimes don't want to hurt the man's feelings, so they fake. I agree with you Shizukana that the lying sucks, and that you want to know what's really happening. But from the women's stand point, if you're someone who's very keyed up on that orgasm, she probably feels it's easier sometimes to just keep your ego intact. If you make sure to let her know that it's not about you in any way, but all about her, and that she needs to just let you know what's really happening and that no matter the answer you'll be fine with it, that would help. I know you're specifically wanting to know how mad you should be with her. Yes she lied. Yes that sucks. She needs to know that you're not happy with that, and it isn't appreciated. You should not hold onto this though and make it to big of a deal. Overall she was probably trying to keep you happy by faking, and while a lie's a lie, some are bigger than others. We all lie a little to keep the waters calm. So communicate your feelings, let her know you need complete honesty in that regard, and then let it go.
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