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		 I don't see the point in faking.  All it does is teach the guy the wrong things to do (ie - it worked last time, so I'll do it from now on).  Four years is a long time together, so you guys should be comfortable enough to talk about it and figure things out.  Maybe she doesn't want to hurt your feelings, or thinks you have some sort of expectations.  You might be surprised at her reasoning. 
		
		
		
		
		
			
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