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I don't think women understand that it isn't a comedy central joke to fake an orgasm, but a very serious blow to a mans ego and feelings. Talk with her about it. If she shuts you down, and there is a chane she might pull a 'you're makinjg a big deal out of nothing' argument take a proactive role. I am one of the few guys who has had a retalitory fake orgasm, just to see what happens. Use lotsa lube and do your buisness. Then afterwards, finish yourself off. If it doesn't bother her, then it isn't personal. If it does bother her, now she has the benifit of sympathy in order for you to resolve. I'm not saying this will work, and it's a little mean, but it's an option.
Short of that last resort, I agree with basically every response. It's essentially a lie. She has to understand how much you feel decieved when she fakes an orgasm. An orgasm is a very special thing to share with someone. Faking it with someone illustrates a basic or underlying communication problem. Also, if one lies about something as serious as this, how easy would it be to lie in other areas?
Go talk to her and tell her how you feel.
Best of luck.
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