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My issue is, I could understand her not wanting to hurt my feelings IF she'd had the same regard about it all throughout the relationship... but she hasn't. She typically has no problems telling me "not tonight," or telling me in the middle of it all that she's getting sore or if something turns her off. In fact, she's never had any problem speaking her mind about ANYTHING that bugged her.
I agree with Holo's comment - "the faker is only depriving themselves and lying to their partner." She knows how much it bothers me and decided to do it anyway, evidently figuring I'd never find out - makes me wonder how many other things she's slid under my nose. Something I've heard her say before is, "if you lie about one thing, what's to say you're not lying about more things?" Well, her actions tonight make me ask the same question.
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