Perhaps dating, without sex -gasp!-, is your answer. Avoid sex, until the relationship has progressed to the point that you are comfortable telling them of your problem. Let them make an informed decision as to whether they are willing to take the risk and move forward, or not.
I know it sucks, spending time with someone knowing that the end of the relationship could happen as soon as it starts getting good. But what the hell are you going to do? Walk around with a sign that says, "I Have Herpes!", just to see who it doesn't scare away?
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