Sadly, it took outside indications for me to notice things were over. I was willing to overlook her temper tantrums. When she became more and more destructive - kicking holes, breaking lamps and grabbing me by the arm during arguments, I finally caught on.
I am a sufferer of emotional and (limited) physical abuse. Don't go down this path. Even staying together for the children (luckily we had none) isn't a good idea - children will notice.
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