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For me there has to be an emotional connection. The one time something like this happened to me, I didn't really care about the girl. It was just about the sex... which didn't happen.
I have to agree with shakran. She sounds like a bit of a ball-buster. If she made that big of a deal about it before y'all got it on, then chances are you were very concerned about your performance which could cause you to loose focus. Being self concious about yourself is the quickest turn off.
If you really do like this girl, then try again. If she is actually a person and not just a great body, then she will understand that it actually does happen to everybody. If she is nothing more than a f*ck toy, then you may want to look for someone with a little more compassion.
DB.
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