I used to have a friend who would come over all the time unannounced. Pissed me off majorly, and my parents, too. Popping up every so often without letting me know first is okay. Like, a few times a year. But being chronically disrespectful is uncool. I can understand if a friend pops up unannounced cuz they are in trouble, or pain, or need a shoulder to cry on or something. I wouldn't stand for 20 years of ignoring my requests to let me know you're coming over. That is just ridiculous.
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