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ibis · 09-12-2004, 08:03 PM

She's playing games with you.

This is what I'd do if you still want to get with her:

Don't call her or talk to her for a while. Let her start calling you, be vauge about your whereabouts and activities. Basically forget about her. If you know any other girls, hang out with them... mabye even one of her friends (if you do this, expect her to start talking to your roommate).

After a while she might start feeling rejected and ask why you don't hang out, why you're advoiding her, or something to that extent. Tell her flat out... "You're leading me on and I don't play games. I think you're a cool girl, but it's not worth it. Mabye we could be friends".

If she's the kind of girl you describe her to be, then she's probally never heard this before and it should blow her away. It'll make her think that to be with you she'll have to work. I've never met a girl that didn't like a chalenge.

Also, you need to be able to show interest. She already knows you want her, not showing it will make her think you're a wussy. Woman don't like that.

Don't every hide you're fealings around woman, because chances are they allready know you feel. They can smell fear.

[Disclamer]
Yeah, this is playing games, I know. Girls do, so why can't we?

09-12-2004, 08:03 PM	#4 (permalink)
ibis PIKE!	She's playing games with you. This is what I'd do if you still want to get with her: Don't call her or talk to her for a while. Let her start calling you, be vauge about your whereabouts and activities. Basically forget about her. If you know any other girls, hang out with them... mabye even one of her friends (if you do this, expect her to start talking to your roommate). After a while she might start feeling rejected and ask why you don't hang out, why you're advoiding her, or something to that extent. Tell her flat out... "You're leading me on and I don't play games. I think you're a cool girl, but it's not worth it. Mabye we could be friends". If she's the kind of girl you describe her to be, then she's probally never heard this before and it should blow her away. It'll make her think that to be with you she'll have to work. I've never met a girl that didn't like a chalenge. Also, you need to be able to show interest. She already knows you want her, not showing it will make her think you're a wussy. Woman don't like that. Don't every hide you're fealings around woman, because chances are they allready know you feel. They can smell fear. [Disclamer] Yeah, this is playing games, I know. Girls do, so why can't we? Last edited by ibis; 09-12-2004 at 08:05 PM.. Reason: Needed to add the disclaimer before I get flamed ;)