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Moving out on your own is probably a better choice. If you are still undecided may I suggest talking to your boyfriends parents? I don't know what they're like at all but as long as they're halfway normal they'll appreciate it. I know you mentioned getting their approval but I'm talking more in terms of their advice. Ask them what they think you should do. Explain to them about your parents and the frustrations of home. They know you better and they know their own son. They will be able to give you some good advice on what you can do. MAYBE just maybe they know of a girl looking for a roommate in their town or some such other option that you haven't considered yet. It will be a good way of beginning a good relationship with your future in-laws.
I'm not sure of the statistics but I have heard that many relationships when the couple lives together often DON'T move on to marriage. Not sure about where I even heard of it though. Honestly why would a couple want the expense of a wedding if they aren't going to change their relationship or living arrangements with a wedding. Just my 2 cents.
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