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"Their house, their rules," certainly. But if their rules are making you crazy -- and frankly, I'm having a hard time figuring out exactly what they want out of you or what you have to do to satisfy them -- you have to at least start planning to move out, putting money away, and so forth. Even if you don't actually have to end up doing it, it'll save your sanity.
I would not move out and expect somebody to support me, even if he/she was willing at first. It's putting yourself in a relationship that's just as unequal in power as the one you're in now, and even with all the best intentions on both sides, a situation like this is going to put even a great relationship under strain.
I would stay with the folks for two years and save up cash, keep formulating plans for being independent. Save your sanity: work hard, study hard, do what you're supposed to do around the house, but don't be surprised if the bitching doesn't stop. Like they say in Vegas, right or wrong "the house" always wins.
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