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jRuntlets · 09-09-2004, 08:18 PM

I was just wondering about when everyone in the Tilted Forum decides to get tested for STD's when they're with a new partner.

I'm 19, had 1 relationship in that realm and didn't get tested prior to oral sex. The relationship ended, and I was tested after. In retrospect I would have liked him (and myself although I'd been with no one prior) to get tested before having oral. I worried for months that maybe he had something and had given it to me, he always found an excuse not to get tested while we were dating. Eventually we broke up because he was wanting to move too fast for me, ended up that he regretted it and was tested after we broke up. He was clean (he said, never showed me evidence). Lucky for me at my annual exam, I was clean too.

Never again will I engage in any sexual act with a partner who hasn't been tested, I don't ever want to go through being that paranoid again!

09-09-2004, 08:18 PM	#1 (permalink)
jRuntlets Crazy	When do you and your partner get tested for STD's? I was just wondering about when everyone in the Tilted Forum decides to get tested for STD's when they're with a new partner. I'm 19, had 1 relationship in that realm and didn't get tested prior to oral sex. The relationship ended, and I was tested after. In retrospect I would have liked him (and myself although I'd been with no one prior) to get tested before having oral. I worried for months that maybe he had something and had given it to me, he always found an excuse not to get tested while we were dating. Eventually we broke up because he was wanting to move too fast for me, ended up that he regretted it and was tested after we broke up. He was clean (he said, never showed me evidence). Lucky for me at my annual exam, I was clean too. Never again will I engage in any sexual act with a partner who hasn't been tested, I don't ever want to go through being that paranoid again! __________________ Horses come and go, but some leave permanent hoof prints on your life.