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Well because you become so dependant on him. It is like you are married but you have no real commitment. IF something were to happen (God forbid) between the two of you.....well you would be in a real bind then. However some people do the living together thing and it works for them. I did it for five years. Then when we broke up it was even more diffulcult bc not only did I have to start my life over without him, I had to live on one income, and find a place to live. After having an experience like that, I don't think I would put myself in that situation again. But that is just me. I think you need to experience life solo before you can really be a good partner to someone. Living together is not easy. Living together without a commitment like marriage is even more diffulcult.
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