I've might missed a few of the post here - but it could just be the fact that she's sonn recovered (or something) - and would like you to see her as the person you got to know, not "that girl with xxx". When you'll have a name/diagnose she is probably afraid you will treat her different.
She probably cares so much of you, that she don't want you to see her from a different point of view. This way she can be (more) shure that your TLC is from the heart, not from the "she-has-a-disease-I-must-be-supportive-and-extra-kind-to-her" part of your brain. (Probably one of the few parts of the brain located abobve waist level...)
(Guess your up to 6 cent on "mind your own business" - hell, read Lurkettes post a few more times and make that ten cent)
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