key, balski, and maleficent: Thanks for your thoughts on this. It is basically what I have been thinking as well, I just wanted some reassurances myself that I am in this for the right reasons. At most, I owe her an apology for telling her it was selfish of her to withhold info. She does have a right to withhold info like this. On the other hand, I am still up in the air about her telling me anything in the first place till we get to know each other better.
If you all could put yourself in my shoes for a moment. Imagine you are in the same boat, you just meet someone special, you have only been with each other a few times, things seem to be off to a good start, then she tells you that she is sick and sees a doctor 3 times a week but is almost done. Wouldn't this strike up a bit of curiosity in you and make you wonder what impact it could have?
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