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Originally Posted by ratbastid
You know, on the other side of the coin... As a member of a non-monogamous marriage, it can be hard to talk about with others. Frequently the people I tell about it think I'm hitting on them, even when that's the farthest thing from my mind. Which is part of why I'm not very public with it.
I'm not saying that's what happened here. Just an interesting thing to toss into this conversation.
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Amen!!! I really hate that...they think just because you're non monogamous that automatically you're looking to screw anything that stands still and that you're not choosy at all...its kinda like straight guys thinking that just because they run into a gay guy that the gay guy wants to fuck him....I learned a long time ago not to talk about it with people that dont understand what its about...unless THEY bring it up