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DaElf · 09-07-2004, 07:40 AM

When I was 18 ( 3 years ago) I had a similar situation with a girl I had been dating for two years. We ended up having a long distance relationship as you speak of. But unfortunetly from past experiance and what I have personally witnessed. Winning the lottery shows more promise than long distance relationships (at girlfreind status.) IF there is a common interest to stay together, do it then. But if she is zig zagging around the conversation and does not seem to want to put in any 'real' effort in to figuring a way to stay together out. I would make a final decision based on her actions. And when you do make that final decision. Let her know exactly how you feel. If it is bad.
Just remember the magical lesson of the bandaid. When you make the final desicion to pull it off. Just PULL IT OFF. Taking that protective layer off one hair at a time is more torture than need be.

09-07-2004, 07:40 AM	#6 (permalink)
DaElf Tilted Location: Washington	When I was 18 ( 3 years ago) I had a similar situation with a girl I had been dating for two years. We ended up having a long distance relationship as you speak of. But unfortunetly from past experiance and what I have personally witnessed. Winning the lottery shows more promise than long distance relationships (at girlfreind status.) IF there is a common interest to stay together, do it then. But if she is zig zagging around the conversation and does not seem to want to put in any 'real' effort in to figuring a way to stay together out. I would make a final decision based on her actions. And when you do make that final decision. Let her know exactly how you feel. If it is bad. Just remember the magical lesson of the bandaid. When you make the final desicion to pull it off. Just PULL IT OFF. Taking that protective layer off one hair at a time is more torture than need be. Last edited by DaElf; 09-07-2004 at 07:45 AM..