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You're feeling married. So what? It won't all be fun and games. But you guys will have to put in some thought. Ive been with my SO for 4 years. We aren't married, but sometimes it feels like it. When it feels too ordinary, we change things up. We try something new together. We help each other. Try a new hobby together. Make a bet, do a trade. Surprise your spouse in a way that says "I love you, and still pay attention to the things you do and say." Think back to the things that were romantic. Or just plain fun. Go away for a long weekend in a new place, so you have to rely on each other and talk. Try to be optimistic, a positive mindset works wonders. Don't be ready to quit because it isn't fun. Be ready to explore what you have.
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- Smashing Pumpkins
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