I'm with Johnny Rotten. This guy should rely on the friends he's had for the past three years since you kicked him out. If he's a good guy, he'll have good friends closer than you. If he doesn't then there's a reason for it, most likely because he's the kind of person you've made him out to be. I'm not saying it was his fault that your girlfriend did those things (I'm also a little unsure of his role), but he came into your life, left a path of destruction, and now he wants back in.
He could have changed, but that's not something I'd be willing to risk. He can't get your old girlfriend back and make your life how it used to be, but he can possibly ruin it again, so it's not worth the risk. Tell him that the last time he stayed wtih you, things went to hell, and you don't want to have that happen again.
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