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Everything said prior from all these fine ladies is the truth. Right now your man needs you to be strong and supportive of his new job...and if it's the real thing it will work out. In fact, imagine that his job becomes the best thing ever happening to him and he decides you must marry him and come there to be his wife...it could happen that way. Yoy can use this time to grow into the fine lady (he wants) that you are to become and show him that you're mature enough to deal with this. That's what wives do. I know from experience all too well. If it's real, it will be just fine. Keep the faith. Meet in the middle and make it so good that he desires you all week long. With email you withstand surviving this better than those of us who only had snail mail and had to deal with 3,000 miles and 2 different colleges. Good luck...be brave and not tearful. Let him see how remarkable you are now and in the future. Hugs to you both!
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"I need compassion, understanding and chocolate." - NJB
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