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I think I don't give her enough space among other things. I would do anything to make this relationship work but I don't even think she wants to work at it.
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Sounds like you and your fiance have role reversal in what a lot of bad relationships are, where one person takes advantage and the other person plays the martyr, generally it's the woman who plays the martyr. Not so in this case.
All relationships take work, they just don't happen. Your profile doesn't state your age, but I'm guessing you guys are pretty young, probably under 25, doesn't sound like she's got the maturity to actually have a relationship, she likes the idea of fiance and the wedding - but the relationship part, no.
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She talks to her guys friends online for like what seems like all day. Pretty much whenever she's on the computer she is typing to them. This obviously makes me jealous.
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Why do you get jealous? Jealousy is a sure relationship killer. Do you not believe that men and women can be friends?
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She knows this but just gets pissed when I bring it up.
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Because she sees it as you not trusting her, maybe her intentions are totally honorable.
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She wants to go out with her friends which are almost all guys which I have no problem it's just she doesn't want me to meet them.
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Why would you think it's ok to go out with them and not chat with them?
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She said its because she doesnt want me to become friends with them encase we break up(so her friends arent my friends in other words). WTF she shouldnt be thinking that way to begin with right?
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What's her relationship history, has she had a lot of bad breakups.
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She tells me problems every once and a while I tell ok lets work on them, then she gets pissed and doesnt want to talk about them.
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Depending on your tone when you say "let's work in them" are you trying to solve her problems for her? To take over? Not all women want to be rescued, some just want to talk for the sake of talking, and will work out the problem on their own, they don't want someone else solving it for them
Not the thing a fiance should say.
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What I need is an outside opinion. Do you based on the information think we should break? Or any addice would be great as well. I really need this guys I can't keep going not knowing whether she really loves me and what I should do.
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You have to talk to her, about whether you should continue your relationship, but it sounds like, from what you've written, and the way I am interpreting it, that you both have some things to work out before jumping intpo the marriage pool.