Don't get too mushy with girls untill you're already in a relationship
Appear very confident yet somewhat friendly
Don't buy too many gifts (for bullshit reasons especially)
Don't give too many compliments (law of deminishing returns applies with excessive compliments)
Don't agree with absolutely everything she says, guys will try to create similarity with girls through agreeing all the time, but when the girls sense that they will tell you some ridiculous bullshit that they don't even believe and see if you agree
I was talking with my friend a few days ago and we were talking about a guy who she liked, and he liked her too, but he ruined it by being a clueless wimp- bought stupid gifts for no reason, paid too many compliments, agreed way too much, got touchy feely way too early. He was attractive and had enough brains, but just didn't know how to behave and turned her off.
Don't obsess over ANY girl. It's extremely eaaasssyyy to become attracted to a girl with whom you already KNOW for very logical reasons you'll never have a good relationship with.
That's just like a tiny shard of all the stuff you need to know to be GENERALLY successful with girls or women.
To attract any female subject you have to create a tailor-made seducing experience just for them, and frankly most of the time it's just not worth the time or energy spent.
Or you could just skip what I said and read the Getting Girls thread.
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