Well, it could just be that your feeling insecure about yourself because you got really nervous that you were going to screw up with the girl that you loved and since it did go badly you are nervous that your insecurity is going to stay with you forever. I suggest you just sit back, take a deep breath and try to relax. You apparently(from your description) got nervous that you would not be able to satisfy the girl and therfore did not. If you can't relax by yourself, try having a drink (and I mean a drink, not a few, just one beer or an equivalent) to help you calm down, realize that there is more to life than just sex, do your best, and if you still finish early, wait till you can get it up again and try again. And try not to rate your life on how you do in bed.
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