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As a child of parents who fought all the time I used to pray every nite my parents would get divorced....When I was a teenager I got in more trouble for asking each of them why they let the other talk to them the way they did. A big part of the reason I moved out the day after I graduated high school was to get away from the fighting and the arguing....I knew the loved ME but they sure didnt seem to love each other. I think it helped me more than anything else to know what I DIDNT want in a relationship.
Its funny when me and my sister left home and it was just them....they started getting along and get along better NOW than ever...they never did divorce.
now MY daughter....when I told her that her daddy and I were getting divorced (after being "seperated, but living in the same house for 4 years, and knowing that each of us had another person in our lives) her ONLY concern was that I was going to make her call Dave "daddy"....which I assured her would never happen. She told me she understood that mommy and daddy were still friends (which we are) and that she was glad about that cause most of the "divorced" people she knew fought all the time. I havent seen that its had any negative affects on her...and I do make sure to talk to her about it every now and then, to make sure that nothing has come up that she has a problem dealing with or understanding.
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I want the diabetic plan that comes with rollover carbs. I dont like the unused one expiring at midnite!!
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