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I once had a very nice, though not earth shaking orgasm when I was giving cunnilingus to my girlfriend. MMMmmmm. I shared her orgasm.
You have to understand that men have about 10% of the sensitivity to touch that women have, except on their genitals, where we are merely equal. So women really want to be carressed all over, but men really want their lover to be more focused on the sensitive finger of friendship.
Women have a much less centered pleasure experience. They have more variety. They have a roller coaster ride, up and down and up and so on. And they can enjoy sex over and over again, if they can find a lover who can pleasure them so long. (Ahh, to be young again!)
But which of us have the greater intensity? There is probably some testing done that tried to answer this question, but we are apples and oranges different when it comes to coming. How could one say?
I'm a little jealous of women's ability to enjoy pleasure again right away after a great orgasm, while I have a significant recycle time need. I wonder and wish I could feel the pleasure of touch all over the way they do, but often find comfort in that I don't feel hurt so much when live and work are abrasive to body. Six of one, half a dozen of the other. Viva la difference! But it is a thrill to watch a woman come.
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