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Originally Posted by mbchills
Alright, so im having this problem.
i lost my virginity tonight. it was the first time we ever hung out, and we did it in the car, and on my trampoline in the backyard, it was actually a pretty wild night.
but besides that, i dont know why.. but i had anxiety, and ic ouldnt help it. i couldnt get hard at first, and i keep to keep kissing her and jerk my self off, then once i was in her, it was fine, but when we were switchin positions it died again
when we ran from the car to the trampoline it died, and took me a while to get going again, but after that i was fine. she tried to finish me off, and even gave me road head as i drove her home, but i just wouldnt come
anyone have any advice? i think to quit watcing porn is good idea. she wants to bang tomorrow night too. im pretty confident ill perform, but just curious on your opinions
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The only advice I can give you is to
relax so you don't suffer from performance anxiety. Also, I'd recommend that you jerk off before you go have sex with her so you don't get too "trigger-happy" before doing the deed.
And finally I'd recommend that you focus on trying to please her with oral sex rather than on getting your dick hard... Trust me... if she likes your Tongue-Fu skills you'll be so turned on by her moans and her enjoyment that your dick will turn into the Sears Tower before you know it.