TurbineSlut

Well, I talked to her last night. I asked her if she could put into words why she didn't think it was going to work. She said she wasn't sure she had the feeling that it 'clicked' between us (which I did, btw). But she also said I don't bore her and that she enjoys my company when I'm around.

She said it was probably just having to get used to having a boyfriend again (was single for more than a year). She has an active life doing all sorts of stuff and having to incorporate me into the picture was something to get used to. And sometimes this was annoying, because she wasn't really feeling enthusiastic about us or sure that it was going to click. She said she sometimes felt as if I were "crowding her". Like getting too close too quickly or something.

I explained that I was surprised and dissapointed when she told me that she didn't think it was going to work. I told her I wasn't really 'falling in love' but that it felt for me as if we'd not given it enough time. I told her that I'd had relationships before where it was pretty much love at first sight, and others where I grew into it... and that I felt that ours was of the second kind.

But she said she does want to continue seeing me and didn't feel like she wanted to just stop the relationship and say goodbye. So, we'll see what happens...