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Sargeman · 08-17-2004, 01:47 PM

Very good points you have brought out about the thinking of the other girl. I knew that would be a problem initially and no matter how much I try not to think about her I do, but most of it is because I have paper work that her and I have to exchange or because we do the most "business" with the company she works for. I work for the government so we don't have customers per say. Since the lunch thing I've called her twice, including today, and kept it to strict work talk, other than the opening "Hey what are you doing?" type of conversation. That has been as personal as it gets.

I will have to see her one time this week as I have to go to her office. I really don't think it will be a problem to go in and out of there without a little flirtation going on. Even if she or I say something playfully I will leave just as soon as I can.

Now about my wife. Why don't I take her out to lunch. Simple, she works through lunch. She has a part time job where she works from10-2. On days where she works all day they just pick something up and bring it back to the office to eat it. She works for a local cellular phone company, so they stay pretty busy.

The problem is and has always been communication between her and me. She's real quiet and not very outgoing. I'm just the opposite. When something is on my mind I'm going to speak it. She would rather keep things inside of her than to talk to me. Believe it or not that has been what we argue about most. I tell her to talk to me and she just won't. I know when something is bothering her but she won't talk to me. We've been married for almost 14yrs.

08-17-2004, 01:47 PM	#30 (permalink)
Sargeman Insane Location: Texas	Very good points you have brought out about the thinking of the other girl. I knew that would be a problem initially and no matter how much I try not to think about her I do, but most of it is because I have paper work that her and I have to exchange or because we do the most "business" with the company she works for. I work for the government so we don't have customers per say. Since the lunch thing I've called her twice, including today, and kept it to strict work talk, other than the opening "Hey what are you doing?" type of conversation. That has been as personal as it gets. I will have to see her one time this week as I have to go to her office. I really don't think it will be a problem to go in and out of there without a little flirtation going on. Even if she or I say something playfully I will leave just as soon as I can. Now about my wife. Why don't I take her out to lunch. Simple, she works through lunch. She has a part time job where she works from10-2. On days where she works all day they just pick something up and bring it back to the office to eat it. She works for a local cellular phone company, so they stay pretty busy. The problem is and has always been communication between her and me. She's real quiet and not very outgoing. I'm just the opposite. When something is on my mind I'm going to speak it. She would rather keep things inside of her than to talk to me. Believe it or not that has been what we argue about most. I tell her to talk to me and she just won't. I know when something is bothering her but she won't talk to me. We've been married for almost 14yrs. __________________ ...because there are no facts, there is no truth, just data to be manipulated. I can get you any results you like, what's it worth to you.....