LondonsBurning

I have not brought adoption up with her. The fiance has done a pretty good job of convincing her to stay. Funny thing was before she realized she was pregnant with his child, she had since broken up with him and gone up with her life. I had actually started a thread a few weeks ago asking if it was possible to have a period while pregnant. That was related to her since it wasn't til she was 6 months pregnant and had a routine doctor appointment that her pediatrician told her the news. Up until then she had actually had been having her period. When I actually visited her, she didn't look pregnant. A little bigger and rounder around the stomach, but not yet full blown stomach out to the point where you can't see your knees. The moment she realized she was pregnant, she called him, and he proposed marriage. Such a foolish thing to do I think, especially when she broke up with him for being abusive. I understand having no other financial options to go to, but jeez. Ultimately it will be her decision but it's just my hope that I offer so much information that she can't turn her head away from, she'll atleast spend some good time thinking that marriage with that asshole isn't the only option available. She's just too young, and too shortsighted is all, and I can only hope that'll change if she actually sees other viable options.