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I'd be very wary of endangering any relationship you are in now by possibly reopening feelings which are linked to memories and not reality. What I mean is, if you talk to her and start feeling all nostalgic, that can make you dissatistfied with what you have now, not to mentioned making your current lover extremely insecure.
I'd also be careful you are not doing what my roommate does, which is expect all her ex's to talk to her at least once a week, chat online, and come over for visits, as if nothing had ever happened. It's not possible, and I might even go so far as to call it cruel, for you to expect perfectly normal and friendly behaviour from an ex who might still be hurt.
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