Yeah, I've heard it been said that women don't like men who don't know how to use paragraphs.
Outside of that, there isn't much room for repercussion if you just told her you've a crush on her. I mean, you don't live there, you only go there on occasion. If she doesn't like you in such a manner, and things get weird after, you don't have to have much contact with her.
I might sound callous, but I really try not to get too close to women I'm romantically interested in if I know they're not available or not interested in me. Enjoy their company, and visit with them enough so they know you exist, but always keep them at arms length. It sucks being best friends with women you want to jump on. I've been there a couple of times, and am really trying not to go there again. But if they're available, then by all means, go for it! If you don't, the only place you're headed for is "good friend."
And if she's plenty down with spending the day with you, then she must not have much against you.
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