08-13-2004, 05:49 PM
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Originally posted by maleficent
Who wouldn't like the attention of an attractive 20 something year old.
If you can honestly tell yourself that if she told you, take me here,take me now, you'd tell her, that you are honestly only interested in being a friend, then by all means, have lunch with her, be friends with her. But... if you, somewhere in your subconscious are hoping for more, even if it's just for your ego, then it's not fair to either her or you, it's a hell of a temptation.
I stand my my statement that men and women can be friends, friends go to lunch, friends talk about all sorts of stuff, you are aware of that because you already go to lunch with women. What makes her different? Does she make you nervous?
YOu asked for sense to be knocked into you -- so here goes.
Your problem isn't with this young lady, it's really at home, with your wife, what's changed in that relationship, and where is it going? Don't use the other young lady to get something that you are missing at home.
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i agree completely. Talk to your wife. You might need to start doing something new together.. try to find a weekly class or group to go to so you have something new in your relationship
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