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Sargeman · 08-13-2004, 01:03 PM

Well I don't have a problem telling my wife. It just so happens that we did go out to lunch today and it was in a crowded restaraunt. No hush hush quiet picnic lunch at her house. You're right I do feel I owe it to my wife to let her know. Like I said before, I have gone out to eat with many other girls before. For the record, my wife has gone out to eat with guys before but we trust each other.

I did pull the old Happy Gilmore routine on her. I told here we were going out to lunch as friends and she said yeah as friends you're a married man.

The only void that I want filling is the void of meeting someone new and getting to know them. I had about a million questions to ask her but conversation was so smooth and all, that I asked her a fraction of the questions because we would go into so much detail that it took up most of the time. Nothing too personal like her bra size or crap like that. Just mainly about her life where she's originally from and about why she doesn't have a boyfriend/boyfriends and that kind of small talk. There was a little flirtation going on before and after but nothing that I wouldn't do in front of my wife. I will say this, she does have the most beautiful crystal clear blue eyes, that's what attracted me to her. We had great conversation and agreed that we needed to do it again.

Also she's not desparately looking for a man that she had to choose a married man. She's a single mom who was engaged to her son's (who is now 8) daddy but she broke it off because he was cheating on her. I promise getting in her pants is the last thing on my mind. Being cool with her and having another friend is what I'm looking for.

08-13-2004, 01:03 PM	#11 (permalink)
Sargeman Insane Location: Texas	Well I don't have a problem telling my wife. It just so happens that we did go out to lunch today and it was in a crowded restaraunt. No hush hush quiet picnic lunch at her house. You're right I do feel I owe it to my wife to let her know. Like I said before, I have gone out to eat with many other girls before. For the record, my wife has gone out to eat with guys before but we trust each other. I did pull the old Happy Gilmore routine on her. I told here we were going out to lunch as friends and she said yeah as friends you're a married man. The only void that I want filling is the void of meeting someone new and getting to know them. I had about a million questions to ask her but conversation was so smooth and all, that I asked her a fraction of the questions because we would go into so much detail that it took up most of the time. Nothing too personal like her bra size or crap like that. Just mainly about her life where she's originally from and about why she doesn't have a boyfriend/boyfriends and that kind of small talk. There was a little flirtation going on before and after but nothing that I wouldn't do in front of my wife. I will say this, she does have the most beautiful crystal clear blue eyes, that's what attracted me to her. We had great conversation and agreed that we needed to do it again. Also she's not desparately looking for a man that she had to choose a married man. She's a single mom who was engaged to her son's (who is now 8) daddy but she broke it off because he was cheating on her. I promise getting in her pants is the last thing on my mind. Being cool with her and having another friend is what I'm looking for. __________________ ...because there are no facts, there is no truth, just data to be manipulated. I can get you any results you like, what's it worth to you.....