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Originally posted by Harshaw
I have 2 really silly ideas. I'm going to throw them out there and then run and hide while people laugh.
I'm just wondering from a psychological stand point, what would happen if you stimulated the clit while penetrating her. Pick positions that would give you access and while you are pounding away, play with the clit area. Over time you might be able to condition her to enjoy this activity.
The other idea falls along similar lines, look for positions that of their very nature stimulate the clit. With my girlfriend (or friend, or whatever she is at this moment in time) when she is on top, it appears to put some friction on the clit if she is seated correctly.
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Harshaw, before I read your post, I was thinking along the same lines, but slightly different. The brain is the most powerful, adjustable and versatile tool the human body has. What if she were to begin "pretending" that she were enjoying it (as I am sure that would definitely be an upper for you) and over time, she may come around to actually start really enjoying it.
Could it also be that she has some sort of hang up that was a result of a past experience that she may never have told you due to embarassment? Or she is ashamed that she cannot cum that way and therefore has linked failure to unenjoyability (is that a word?)