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Originally posted by SpaceLemons
Hey everyone, I'm new to this place. I guess I just need an outlet for some answers, or just some help. It's like this: I've been seeing this girl for 2 years. It's an on/off long distance thing while she's at school, but it's only about an hour away. ABout 8 months ago she cheated on me and since I'm having horrible trust issues...mainly because she lied about so much and I feel like she still is. We took a break for a couple of months because she wanted some space and needed to sort things out. We still talked everyday and basically never stopped acting like a couple, only she was seeing the other guy pretty steadily...so like she had 2 boyfriends. Now she wants to get back together...and I do too, problem is I'm having a hard time beleiving the other guy is out of the way. She's going back to school in the fall and he'll be there, I won't be. I don't know what to do. If I didn't love this girl I wouldn't be here, I've been cheated on before and it hurt, but I broke things off. I want to give her a second chance but how do I know she's being/will be faithful when she goes to school? We have a week vacation planned in August and I'm afraid we'll just argue the whole time. What should I do?
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She cheated on you therefore she is not trustworthy. Get rid of her or else she'll cheat on you again because if you take her back you'll be basically telling her it's alright to cheat since you'll forgive her anyways.