Look, take her to lunch and be her friend. Go ahead and be attracted, just be big enough not to act on it. You're not an animal, after all. I'm attracted to all sorts of women that I don't put the moves on. We're all adults, we can manage ourselves.
Mal's dead on about the rest, though. Why are you tolerating a lack of communication with your wife? That's what there REALLY is to deal with.
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