Took the words right out of my mouth.
If you can honestly say, no matter what, I will not have anything other than a friendly relationship with this woman, than go right ahead. However. This is important now, make sure she knows that.
Also, do you see yourself being able to come home from work and tell your wife that you had lunch with this young woman? Could you talk about it as you would talk about having lunch with the guys? Granted it could never be discussed exactly in the same fashion (In all practicality) because of the natural minor jealousies that exist in a relationship...But would YOU feel the same talking about it? Would it give you a little flutter in your stomach? If it did, meh, might be that you're actually a little more attracted to her than you think.
My 2 cents.
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