hehe@the shirt! I can't imagine how that must have felt...the mormons whispering, or the fact you had to go through it for 5 hours...there's a testiment to remind her of in later days, or for the grandkids...'When I first met your Grandmother...." Sorry...can't help it with the future outlook thing...
As for the ?, I have no clue what necroposting is, nor what is considered such. But I would guess that using this thread for any updates would be my route. Plus you get to check in and see yourself how this situation has changed you and your feelings over time.
If there's anyone out there (mods...more frequent posters) who thinks this isn't the way to go, feel free to let 'us' know