How about still dancing with your mother in the middle of things instead of just after your first dance? I think thats not a bad cmpromise. Just do a normal dance with her instead of the 'special' one.
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Do not confuse altruism with kindness, good will or respect for the rights of others. These are not primaries, but consequences, which, in fact, altruism makes impossible. The irreducible primary of altruism, the basic absolute, is self-sacrifice - which means: self-immolation, self-abnegation, self-denial, self-destruction - which means: the self as a standard of evil, the selfless as a standard of the good.
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