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Originally posted by ruggerp11
I tend to obsess a bit and they both were/are very very hot.
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WHen I read your original post, I was going to say "maybe you're calling too soon/too much?"...and when you said you tend to obsess, I came to the conclusion that that's probably the case. If you call too soon (and/or or too much), you could come off as a tad desperate or too agressive. Also...for some reason or another, girls tend to be attracted more to guys who don't seem to have tons of time for them at first. That's why people say "don't call for the first two days" or "keep the calls short". You want them to keep in touch/keep them interested but at the same time they should think you're out and about, filling up your time with interesting stuff.....don't come off as having no life.
My other thought is that if they're very hot, they might go out a lot and be meeting/juggling a few guys. Maybe they're just busy or they're meeting other people. Who knows?