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i hear ya brother. im in the process of change as we speak. first thing you gotta do is keep your head up and be positive. a positive outlook on things goes along way. next time you feel that "hate" for something, think of something positive about it instead. being positive is the key.
is your shyness just a lack of confidence? i was always caught up in what i thought others thought of me instead of just being me. now instead of excluding myself from social situations i just dive right in...i really could care less what people think of me unless its positive...and if im being positive i will always attract other positive people.
its not going to happen over night so dont forget your goals when you start to fall back into old habits. you'll see that it takes alot more effort to be negative then it does positive.
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