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Originally posted by chuj
[B]I appreciate you guys being direct about this.
Yeah - im pretty sure she knew while it was going on, and the fact that she'd never distanced herself from me only makes me more confused. We've never discussed it so I cant be 100%, but I know that other people have told her about it. I've been thinking that that might be the way to go, just telling her the way I used to feel and leaving the ball in her court.[B]
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That would probably be the best thing to do. Let her know you are having some doubts about moving in with her, and let her know how you feel about her. She might tell you that she just wants to be friends, and it is in your best interest to know that before you move in, so you don't have any false hopes. Then again, she might be wondering why you've never tried to make a move on her. She may have feelings for you, but is unsure due to you not acting on yours.
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And yeah believe that scenario has crossed my mind more than once. Another part of this situation is that my only other option would be to move in with strangers, which would in turn, force her and the other roomie to do the same. I'd feel like a big asshole doing that, but should that be besides the point? I also hate the idea of living with strangers, as I had a bad experience with it over the last year.
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Moving in with strangers is definitely risky, and I would advise against that.
I'd take inventory of my feelings for her, and get everything out in the open before yall move in together. That way you're all on the same page and you don't go into it hoping something will happen, only to have your hopes dashed.