I appreciate you guys being direct about this.
Yeah - im pretty sure she knew while it was going on, and the fact that she'd never distanced herself from me only makes me more confused. We've never discussed it so I cant be 100%, but I know that other people have told her about it. I've been thinking that that might be the way to go, just telling her the way I used to feel and leaving the ball in her court.
And yeah believe that scenario has crossed my mind more than once. Another part of this situation is that my only other option would be to move in with strangers, which would in turn, force her and the other roomie to do the same. I'd feel like a big asshole doing that, but should that be besides the point? I also hate the idea of living with strangers, as I had a bad experience with it over the last year.
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