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yea yo, whenever you read personals in indie newspaper s like the village voice there are lots of people looking for thirds in their heterosexual sex (almost always a third female).
as for flirting with & picking up women-- a couple of things: it's not too hard, because as a woman you already know what it's like to be hit on nicely (or at least you can imagine...). besides, i think for most women it's flattering to be flirted with by anyone, male or female. other thing is, it's becoming more accepted at chick bars (that's lesbian bars) for women who are in a straight relationship to come in looking to pick someone up for a threesome. be forewarned, though-- there's definitely risk of pissing some people off, and with decent reason.
and as for personal experience... i was in a threesome once, all girls, and it was volatile and nerve-wracking and full of insecurity and jealousy. i don't think i'd ever do it again unless i was damn sure that the third person's feelings & the feelings towards the third person were purely platonic. which is rare. so get a stranger.
ok, i swear i'm almost done-- just for the record, having a woman go down on you can be a consciousness-jarringly wonderful experience.
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