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Cut her loose chief.
Been there, went through it, and the best choice I made was to sever all ties with her. I was still sleeping with her 10 months after we broke up, and I coulden't handle it anymore. I was also cheating on my GF with her, simply because emotionally it's where I wanted to be.
I cut ties, and I told the girl I was with what had been going on. I really didn't care, as she was more of a companion then anything else. We just started seeing more of each other, and eventually started sleeping together. She wasen't upset, and after all that happend, I met the woman that eventually became my wife.
I've never thought about her again. She even works in the bank I go to. Like my roomate in college always said, ALL women are replacable. I never believed him until the day I met my wife. It's a cruel thing, but you can always find happiness somewhere else. There is always someone else out there. And if what your grieving over was meant to be, it will be.
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